Can’t Stop Checking Your Phone… Even When You Know You Should?
If you’re tired of mindless scrolling, distracted conversations, and that twitchy urge to “just check one thing”… you’re not alone.
Are youTired of
- Impulse to check your phone constantly, even in social settings like the gym or restaurants
- Anxiety or FOMO when disconnected from social media
- Mindless scrolling as a default habit
- Forgetting what you were doing mid-conversation because you were scrolling
- Accidentally “liking” an old post while stalking someone’s profile (“prime”)
- Dropping your phone in food, drinks, or toilets due to distraction
- Walking into walls, doors, or objects while texting
- Impulsive spending or online shopping
- Neck or posture issues from phone overuse
- Inability to communicate fully with the people around you
- Constantly checking emails or notifications.
- Feeling frustrated by low likes or matches on dating apps
- Lack of presence and awareness in daily life
You have tried
📱 Deleting Apps (for a week)
Only to redownload them the second boredom kicked in. Let’s be real, TikTok isn’t going to miss you — but you’ll act like it does.
📴 Screen Time Limits
Which you instantly override with your password. Nothing screams “discipline” like typing in “Ignore for Today” at 9 a.m.
📵 The “Digital Detox Weekend”
Great idea… until you realize you spent the whole time just thinking about what you’re missing online. By Sunday night, you’re back to scrolling like nothing ever happened.
📈 Buying the Latest Productivity App
Ironically, you spend more time organizing your to-do list than actually doing anything on it.
The truth? You don’t need another app or temporary detox. You need a system and accountability that rewires how you relate to your phone — so you stop being controlled by it and start managing it.
What if your phone stopped running your life, and you finally felt in control again?
→ You sit down to dinner with friends, fully present, without your phone buzzing in your hand.
→ You crush your workout without scrolling Instagram between sets.
→ You look a woman in the eye and actually hold her gaze, instead of nervously checking your screen.
→ You walk through the world with awareness — no more bumping into doors, walls, or strangers because you were “just checking something.”
→ You sleep better, focus deeper, and feel lighter because your attention is no longer hijacked by notifications.
Introducing
14 Day, I Can’t Put My Phone Down Rewire
“I Can’t Put My Phone Down” is a 14-day reset for men who are tired of letting their phone run their lives. Suppose you’re done with mindless scrolling, distracted conversations, and living half-present. In that case, this program will retrain your brain, rebuild your focus, and put you back in control of your time, relationships, and presence—without gimmicks or digital detox fads.
By the end of 14 days, you'll:
Stay present in social settings — enjoying real connection without feeling the itch to check your phone.
In just 14 days, you’ll retrain your brain to be fully present — without the twitchy need to check notifications, scroll endlessly, or “just see what’s new” on Instagram. No more phantom buzzes. No more “just one quick check” that turns into 45 minutes. No more pretending you need to check an “important email” just to fill the silence.
Our Focus Areas
I'm James
Founder of Unspoken Men, U.S. Air Force veteran, and entrepreneur. On paper, I had the discipline, the leadership, and the success. But privately, I was fighting battles that most men never talk about.
I struggled with loneliness, anxiety, lack of confidence, poor communication, pornography addiction, and an out-of-control nervous system. For years, I felt like I was supposed to have it all together, yet inside I was falling apart.
My turning point came when I finally faced those struggles head-on. Since 2022, I’ve been free from pornography. In 2024, I committed to sobriety from alcohol. But more importantly, I didn’t just stop bad habits — I reverse-engineered the process and built a framework that any man can use to take back control.
Unspoken Men was born out of what I wish I had when I was rebuilding myself: a brotherhood, a system, and a guide for men who refuse to settle. What took me years of trial and error, I can now teach in a fraction of the time.
This is the program I would have killed for — a direct path to rebuilding your confidence, standing tall with presence, and mastering the skills to create a life and relationships that actually fulfill you.
This isn’t about going at it alone — we rebuild together
What You’ll Walk Away With
Two Private Coaching Sessions — ($997 Value)
This is where everything changes. In these one-on-one calls, we’ll dismantle the habits that have kept you stuck and rebuild new routines around focus, discipline, and presence. Most men waste years trying to figure this out on their own — you’ll have a proven system in just two sessions.
Turn Phone Boring Toolkit — ($199 Value)
Your phone has been hijacking your brain for years — we’ll flip that script. With this toolkit, you’ll make your phone so dull it stops controlling you. That means no more late-night scrolling, no more “just 5 minutes” turning into hours, and no more impulse checking every time you’re bored.
Accountability Chat 90 days— ($1197 Value)
This is your lifeline. Any time you feel the urge to slip back into old habits, you’ll have direct access to men walking the same path. Imagine having a brotherhood that calls you out when you need it and pulls you forward when your willpower runs low.
30-Day Maintenance Check-In — ($450 Value)
The first two weeks are about breaking free. The real challenge is staying free. This follow-up call ensures your new routines are solidified, giving you the confidence that you won’t just revert — you’ll keep building momentum long after the program ends.
First Consideration for Our 12-Week Intensive
This isn’t just a course — it’s your entry point into a movement. Graduates of this program get priority access to our flagship 12-week rebuild, where we go far deeper into leadership, discipline, and mastery. If you’re serious about leveling up, this is your fast lane.
Total Value: $2,843
Your Price Today: $497
This coaching program is for you If...
1. The Phone outsmarts you
Think about it: a piece of glass and metal has more control over your day than you do. One notification and suddenly you’ve lost 45 minutes, your gym set, and maybe even your dignity after “accidentally liking” a 2017 Instagram post. If you can’t put the phone down, how are you supposed to lead yourself, let alone others?
2. Your Relationships Deserve More Than Half Your Attention
Modern men pride themselves on being reliable, present, and confident. Yet somehow, the phone continues to win out over eye contact. You can’t build trust with a woman, respect from your peers, or a connection with your kids if you’re mentally still inside a group chat. It’s hard to be taken seriously when your posture screams “text-neck.”
3. The World Rewards Men Who Can Focus
Technology isn’t slowing down—it’s speeding up. Most men will stay stuck scrolling, swiping, and chasing likes while life passes them by. However, those who reclaim control of their focus will have the edge—in business, leadership, and relationships. Because let’s be honest, nobody ever built a legacy bragging about their screen time report.
